I know what you mean about wanting a special shoe, and not being able to find exactly what you are visualizing, I think all women have this problem.
There are three websites that I can think of that have bridal shoes and free shipping both ways. The great thing about these sites is that you can actually search by color, style, heel height and size.
I see what you mean about not being able to find a cute or special bridal shoe that’s flat. Since you said you are open to a “low heel” shoe, I found some that look better than a ballet flat and are under 2 inches. Here are some examples:
The three sites that have shipping both ways and have bridal shoes are
Zappos.com,
Shoebuy.com, and
Lovethemshoes.com.
Click the Blue text below – these are the links that will take you to the stores to view the shoes, and you can also do some more specific searching if you wish.
Love them shoes – this site has some coupons on the side, which will give you even deeper discounts. It’s great because when you click on the style you want it shows you where you can purchase them for the best price. As I mentioned shipping is free both ways.
Low heel bridal shoes
(check the heel heights and prices you desire)
Flat bridal shoes
Zappos – I’ve used zappos a few times and have been very happy with their customer service. The search feature is very complete and helpful. There is also a live chat feature so you can get additional help & guidance.
Low heel bridal shoes
Shoe Buy – also has two way free shipping and a great search feature.
Low heel bridal shoes
Bridal Flats
There is also an online bridal store that has free shipping, but it does not have free shipping back, which is a bummer. I wanted you to look at the link anyways, just in case because it has a more narrowed search (by heel height, size, color, and open toe/closed toe styles)
http://www.onlinebridalstore.com/Scripts/prodList.asp?idCategory=127
The stores I recommend that you go to are DSW shoes – they always have a wide range of shoes in different heel heights and I always find cute pairs. Also, there are different price points so you can stay within your budget.
Department stores – Dillards, Macy’s, Nordstroms. You might have some luck there and a shoe salesperson can help you find what you are looking for.
I
would recommend that you go to a bridal store. I know you want to leave that as a last resort, but it wouldn’t hurt to have a look. You’d be surprised at the affordability of the shoes. A friend of mine is very tall and she had to get some low bridal shoes and they were very pretty, and not expensive. Also, they weren’t the dye kind, they had very nice details on them.
Hope that helped! Good Luck and Congrats!